When Favour Becomes an Entitlement: Protect Your Peace!
@When Favour Becomes an Entitlement: Protect Your Peace! One of life's most exhausting experiences is having loved ones who mistake your kindness for an obligation. There is a fundamental difference between entitlement and favour. Entitlement is a perceived right to something, while favour is a voluntary act of kindness that deserves appreciation, not enforced compliance. Being family, a spouse, a child, a friend or an associate does not automatically give anyone unlimited access to your resources. Relationships may create responsibilities, but they do not confer an unlimited licence to make demands. Nobody becomes your permanent creditor simply because you have been generous. Sadly, some people quickly forget yesterday's sacrifices the moment today's request is not met. They take repeated favours for granted, become offended by one inability, magnify your shortcomings and conveniently erase your history of kindness. Some are not necessarily interested in your wellbeing; th...