@Courting Your Parents' Favour

 @Courting Your Parents' Favour 



Our parents occupy a very important place in our lives as young people. In fact, they are next to God in divine and earthly hierarchy in our lives. They carried and nurtured our seeds to life. Hence, they wield unfettered natural and supernatural authority. They are to be revered and respected regardless of any awkward circumstances.


Their utterances, disposition, orientation, exposure or lack of it can make or mar our destiny. Their love, favour, blessing, support, guidance and consent are therefore crucial in fulfilling our destiny. 


Court their blessing whether they are perfect or not. Seek their happiness always, not only when you want to collect money from them.


Do not let one of your two parents set you or use you against the other. Be in good terms with both of them.


Courting the favor of your parents involves building and maintaining a positive relationship with them based on respect, communication, and understanding. Here are some tips on how to do so:


đź’ĄShow Respect: Treat your parents with respect and honour in your words and actions. Acknowledge their opinions, listen to their advice, and be mindful of their feelings.


đź’ĄCommunicate Openly: Foster open and honest communication with your parents. Share your thoughts, feelings, and experiences with them, and encourage them to do the same. Effective communication helps build trust and understanding.


đź’ĄListen Empathetically: Take the time to listen attentively to your parents' perspectives, concerns, and experiences. Show empathy and understanding even if you disagree with them, and validate their feelings.


đź’ĄSeek Their Advice: Involve your parents in your decision-making process and seek their advice and guidance when facing important life choices or challenges. Respect their wisdom and experience, and consider their input when making decisions.


đź’ĄDemonstrate Responsibility: Show your parents that you are responsible and capable of handling responsibilities. Take initiative, follow through on your commitments, and contribute to household chores or family obligations.


đź’ĄBe Supportive: Offer your support and assistance to your parents when they need it. Show that you care about their well-being and are willing to help them in practical ways, whether it's running errands, offering emotional support, or spending quality time together.


đź’ĄExpress Gratitude: Always express gratitude and appreciation for everything your parents do for you. Recognize their sacrifices, efforts, and unconditional love, and express your thanks regularly.


đź’ĄBe Courteous and Obedient: While it's important to maintain a positive relationship with your parents, show courtesy and obey them. Respectfully communicate your needs and preferences, and negotiate compromises when conflicts arise.


đź’ĄShow Affection: Demonstrate affection and warmth towards your parents through gestures such as hugs, kind words, or acts of kindness. Let them know how much you love and appreciate them.


đź’ĄStay Connected: Stay connected with your parents regularly, whether it's through phone calls, visits, or spending quality time together. Make deliberate efforts to stay involved in their lives and maintain a strong bond with them.


By actively courting the favor of your parents and nurturing a positive relationship with them, you can strengthen your family ties, foster mutual respect and understanding, and create a supportive and loving environment, thereby setting yourself up spiritually and morally for a life of great success and fulfilfillment.


@Otunba Femi Abiola, CMIE

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