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@Friendship That Matters

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@Friendship That Matters In a world of increasing digital connections, the true essence of friendship is often diluted. We interact with countless people through social media and various platforms, but how many of those relationships really matter? A friendship that matters goes beyond casual chats, social gatherings, or 'likes' on a post. It's about a deep, authentic connection that brings fulfillment, mutual growth, and unwavering support. Let’s explore what makes a friendship truly valuable and how we can cultivate meaningful relationships in our lives. 📌Mutual Respect and Understanding At the heart of every meaningful friendship lies mutual respect. Friends who value each other, despite differences in opinions, beliefs, or backgrounds, are the ones who thrive. They don’t impose their views on one another but rather listen, learn, and understand. Respect builds trust, and when friends feel safe to express themselves, the relationship flourishes. Be intentional about lis...

@Eradicating the Menace of Yahoo Boys

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 @Eradicating the Menace of Yahoo Boys In recent years, Nigeria has witnessed an alarming rise in the criminal activities of Yahoo boys, a term used to describe young men engaged in internet fraud and, increasingly, ritual killings. The spread of this scourge has devastated families, torn at the moral fabric of our society, and tarnished the image of our country. Even more horrifying is the trend of ritual killings, where young girls and even children are gruesomely sacrificed in desperate attempts to secure wealth through dark, supernatural means. To truly address this issue, we must go beyond condemnation and moral outrage. It requires a multi-pronged, practical, and hands-on approach involving all stakeholders - government, communities, families, religious institutions, law enforcement, and most importantly, the youth themselves. If we are to have any hope of reclaiming our society from this dangerous trend, we must be willing to dig deep and implement lasting solutions that add...

@The Betrayal of Faith: Religious Leaders Abetting Yahoo Boys

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 @The Betrayal of Faith: Religious Leaders Abetting Yahoo Boys In a land filled with the echoes of faith, compassion, and community, a disturbing darkness has crept into our religious spaces. The very sanctuaries where people seek solace, truth, and spiritual guidance have become tainted by the growing influence of ill-gotten wealth. It is heartbreaking to witness that some of Nigeria’s religious leaders - those who should stand as beacons of morality and righteousness - are now entangled in the shameful web of criminality, particularly in aiding and abetting the actions of Yahoo boys, fraudsters, and ritualists. This tragic reality has not only tarnished the sanctity of our places of worship but also cast a shadow over the moral fabric of our society. The alarming case of a Yahoo boy retrieving a generator he had donated to a church after a falling-out with the religious leader is not an isolated incident; it is a symptom of a much deeper rot that has infiltrated the heart of our ...

@The Price of Blood Money: Yahoo Parents Association

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@The Price of Blood Money: Yahoo Parents Association  In the quiet corners of Nigerian society, a chilling darkness has taken root. It festers in the minds of young men, desperate for riches, seduced by the false allure of sudden wealth. These are the so-called "Yahoo boys," youths who seek wealth not through hard work, education, or innovation but through ritual killings and heinous crimes, sacrificing the innocent in pursuit of what they call success. Their victims are often young girls, whose lives are brutally cut short, their dreams snuffed out in the most gruesome way imaginable. What has brought our nation to this terrifying place, where the blood of the innocent is shed for money? The answer is complex but points to a deep moral decay, where material wealth has been elevated above human life, integrity, and decency. And shockingly, behind many of these blood-soaked crimes, we find not only the hands of wayward youths but also the silent, or sometimes not-so-silent, su...

@The Dangerous Craving for Freebies: Young Girls and Yahoo Boys

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@The Dangerous Craving for Freebies: Young Girls and Yahoo Boys  In recent times, Nigeria has been plagued by an alarming and tragic trend - young girls falling victim to ritual killers disguised as Yahoo boys. These predators have perfected the art of luring girls into their traps with tempting but shallow offerings - ice cream, iPhones, free cash, and other flashy gifts. The lure of these freebies has become the bait for something far more sinister: the destruction of lives, destinies, and futures. The harsh reality is that many girls, driven by greed, lust for material things, or a craving for what is “awuf” (something free), have found themselves trapped in a cycle of exploitation, ritual killings, and a fate worse than death. The lust for a luxurious lifestyle, without the hard work and integrity needed to attain it, has left a trail of untimely deaths, incurable sicknesses, mental instability, and even disappearances. Some of these young women, though alive, have lost their d...

@The Dark Path of Ritual Killings

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@The Dark Path of Ritual Killings: A Call to Nigerian Youths for a Return to Light In the heart of Nigeria, a silent epidemic has gripped the nation - an epidemic not of disease, but of something far more sinister: the rampant and horrifying ritual killings of young girls, perpetrated by male youths in a ruthless pursuit of quick riches. These "Yahoo boys," as they are commonly known, have lost their way, straying down a path so dark that it has swallowed their conscience, their humanity, and their souls. They have become slaves to an illusion - the illusion that wealth, however acquired, is the measure of a man’s worth. This article is a plea, a call to every youth who finds himself at the crossroads between righteousness and evil. It is a reminder that no matter how tempting the quick road to riches may seem, it leads only to ruin - of the soul, of the community, and of the nation! 📌The Value of Human Life First, let us reflect on the sanctity of human life. Every life, ev...

@First Lady at 64

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@First Lady at 64 On behalf of PROJECT YOUTH FULFIL (PYoF), we joyfully celebrate and honor Nigeria's First Lady, Senator Oluremi Tinubu, on the occasion of her 64th birthday. Your inspiring leadership and unwavering commitment to youth development at both state and national levels have left an indelible mark on the hearts of many. Through initiatives like the NEW ERA FOUNDATION, you pioneered groundbreaking pro-youth programs such as the One-Day Governor, Spelling Bee Competition, and School Infrastructural Enhancement—empowering the next generation. Your continued service as a three-term Senator representing Lagos Central, and now as the First Lady with the Renewed Hope Initiative, reflects your humility, godliness, and passion for youth and humanity. You are a shining light and a beacon of hope for the future of our nation. Happy Birthday, Ma! We pray for continued strength, wisdom, and God's blessings in your noble endeavors. Warmest regards, *@Otunba Femi Abiola, CMIE* *@P...

@Discovering Your Naturally Suited Career

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@Discovering Your Naturally Suited Career Choosing a career that aligns with your natural strengths, interests, and values is crucial for long-term satisfaction and success. While some people seem to know their ideal career path from a young age, many others need time and exploration to discover it. Finding a naturally suited career involves self-awareness, exploration, and a willingness to align your work with who you truly are. Here’s how to embark on the journey of discovering your ideal career. 📌Assess Your Strengths and Skills Begin by identifying your strengths and skills. What are you naturally good at? Consider the tasks or activities that come easily to you or where others frequently seek your help. These strengths could be analytical thinking, problem-solving, creativity, communication, or leadership, among others. Understanding your core competencies can help you narrow down career options that would allow you to thrive. 📌Reflect on Your Interests and Passions Your interes...

@Activating Creativity for Productivity

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@Activating Creativity for Productivity  Creativity is the ability to generate new and original ideas, concepts, or solutions that are both novel and useful. It involves thinking outside conventional frameworks to explore unique possibilities and approaches. Creativity is not limited to artistic endeavors; it plays a critical role in problem-solving, innovation, and everyday decision-making. You can enhance your creative output and achieve greater productivity through the following: 💥Cultivate a Creative Mindset 📌Embrace Curiosity: Foster a mindset of exploration and wonder. Allow yourself to ask questions and explore new ideas without immediate judgment. 📌Overcome Fear of Failure: Recognize that failure is a part of the creative process. Use setbacks as learning opportunities rather than obstacles. 📌Encourage Open-Mindedness: Be willing to consider unconventional ideas and perspectives. 💥Create an Inspiring Environment 📌Design a Creative Space: Arrange your workspace to be v...

@Understanding Your Callings in Life

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@Understanding Your Callings in Life Understanding your callings in life is about recognizing the deeper purpose or purposes that drive you, guide your decisions, and give your life meaning. A calling is more than just a job or career; it’s a profound sense of purpose that aligns with your values, passions, and talents. Discovering your callings can lead to a more fulfilling and impactful life. 💥What is a Calling? 📌Purpose and Meaning: A calling is often described as a life purpose that provides a deep sense of meaning and fulfillment. It’s what you feel you are meant to do in the world. Calling is not the exclusive preserve of "Men of God". Some are called into medicine or business or education or  manufacturing or ICT or designing or broadcasting or banking or politics or sports or leadership or entertainment or counseling, law or acting or writing or speaking, to impact lives positively.  📌Alignment with Values: Your calling aligns with your core values, beliefs, and wh...