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@YeyeBirthday

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#QueensBirthday #Yeye Happy Birthday to my dearest wife, my twin sister, my number one fan, and my ever-enthusiastic cheerleader – Yeye Otunba Bolaji Abiola! Your unwavering love, boundless support, and infectious energy make every step of my journey worthwhile. You are a rare gem, a shining light, and a pillar of strength. With you, every victory is sweeter, every challenge easier, and every moment more beautiful. Today, I celebrate the gift of you—your kindness, wisdom, and the warmth you bring to everyone around you. May your new year be filled with boundless joy, divine favor, fulfilfillment and endless blessings. Keep shining, my love. You are cherished beyond words! With love always, @Otunba Femi Abiola 

@Cultivating Friendship That Nurtures

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@Cultivating Friendship That Nurtures Friendship is one of the most profound gifts life offers you. It is a bond that, when properly nurtured, brings joy, support, and growth. True friendship is not just about shared moments of laughter or companionship during convenient times; it is about building a connection that strengthens, inspires, and nurtures your well-being. 📌Understanding the Essence of True Friendship A genuine friendship goes beyond casual acquaintances or social interactions. It thrives on trust, mutual respect, and a shared sense of purpose. You need friends who uplift you, challenge you to grow, and stand by you even when circumstances are difficult. A true friend celebrates your successes and encourages you in moments of doubt. 📌Choosing the Right Friends Your choice of friends shapes your mindset, influences your habits, and affects your outlook on life. Surrounding yourself with people who share your values and aspirations fosters a sense of belonging and security....

@Enhancing Your Employability as a Youth

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@Enhancing Your Employability as a Youth The job market is highly competitive, and securing employment requires more than just having a certificate. To stand out, you must develop the right skills, mindset, and strategies that make you a valuable asset to employers. Enhancing your employability increases your chances of getting hired and excelling in your chosen career. Acquiring relevant skills is crucial. Employers seek individuals with technical expertise and soft skills such as communication, problem-solving, teamwork, and adaptability. Investing in professional training, certifications, and digital literacy enhances your qualifications and makes you more attractive to potential employers. Gaining practical experience gives you an edge. Internships, volunteering, and part-time jobs expose you to real-world work environments and help you develop hands-on skills. These experiences also expand your professional network, increasing your chances of securing job opportunities. Building a...

@Celebrating the Silver Jubilee of International Mother Language Day 2025

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@Celebrating the Silver Jubilee of International Mother Language Day 2025 Language is more than just a tool for communication; it is the essence of identity, culture, and heritage. Every year on February 21st, the world observes International Mother Language Day to promote linguistic diversity and multilingual education. The 2025 edition marks a significant milestone—the 25th anniversary, also known as the Silver Jubilee, of this important observance. This year’s theme, “Linguistic Diversity for Inclusive Education and Social Development,” highlights the role of native languages in ensuring equal learning opportunities and fostering social cohesion. When education is delivered in a learner’s mother tongue, comprehension and cognitive development improve, leading to better academic performance and long-term social benefits. International Mother Language Day was first proclaimed by UNESCO in 1999 to advocate for linguistic and cultural diversity. The chosen date, February 21st, commemora...

@Knowledge That Uplifts: Your Greatest Asset

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@Knowledge That Uplifts: Your Greatest Asset Knowledge is the light that dispels the darkness of ignorance. It is the fire that refines raw potential into brilliance, the compass that directs the steps of the wise, and the wings that lift you beyond limitations. Unlike transient riches, fleeting fame, or perishable possessions, knowledge endures. It transforms, empowers, and positions you for impact that outlives the span of your days. You may amass wealth, but without knowledge, it is like water in a leaky vessel—soon drained and wasted. You may inherit great possessions, but without understanding, you risk squandering them on fleeting pleasures. You may achieve titles and accolades, yet without wisdom, they become empty decorations, void of lasting influence. Knowledge, however, is the wealth that multiplies even as you share it. It is the treasure no thief can steal, no recession can devalue, and no disaster can erase. Consider the great minds that have shaped history. Scientists wh...

@Identifying and Handling Manipulators Around You

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@Identifying and Handling Manipulators Around You In any environment, whether at work, in social or religious circles, or within family relationships, you may encounter individuals whose behaviors aim to control or influence others for their own benefit. These individuals are often referred to as manipulators. Manipulators could include your spouse, your best friend, your boyfriend/girlfriend, your boss, your teacher, your religious leader and so on. Manipulators use subtle tactics to steer your decisions, emotions, and actions without you even realizing it. Recognizing these behaviors is the first step in protecting yourself from being manipulated and maintaining healthy boundaries. 📌Identifying Manipulators ▪️They Play on Your Emotions: Manipulators often appeal to your emotions, attempting to make you feel guilty, sorry for them, or responsible for their happiness. They may exaggerate their problems or weaknesses to draw sympathy and get you to act on their behalf. If you find your...

@Resisting the Pressure to Marry

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@Resisting the Pressure to Marry: A Guide for Young Bachelors and Spinsters Marriage is a beautiful institution, but only when entered into at the right time and with the right person. In many cultures, especially in this part of the world, family, friends, and religious leaders often pressure marriageable individuals to settle down quickly. You may have heard statements like, “I want to carry my grandchild,” “All your mates are married already,” or “You can’t get a perfect spouse.” While these words may come from a place of love, they can also push you into making a life-altering decision out of fear rather than conviction. ▪️Your Life, Your Timing Marriage is not a race. You have a unique journey, and comparing your timeline to that of others will only lead to unnecessary anxiety. Choosing a spouse is one of the most significant decisions of your life, and it requires wisdom, patience, and self-awareness. Rushing into marriage to please others can result in lifelong regret. You deser...

@The Disgrace of Disrespect

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@The Disgrace of Disrespect: A Lesson from Nnamdi Azikiwe University Respect for elders is a fundamental value in African society. It is an ethical principle deeply woven into the cultural fabric of Nigeria. When you disregard this principle, you not only dishonor yourself but also diminish the essence of societal decency. The recent incident at Nnamdi Azikiwe University, Awka, where a female undergraduate publicly disrespected a senior lecturer during a TikTok live video, is a stark reminder of the growing disregard for authority and decorum among some young people. The viral video that captured the appalling behavior sparked outrage, and rightfully so. A university is a place of learning, not just in academics but also in character and responsibility. If you lack the ability to show basic courtesy to those who impart knowledge, you prove yourself unworthy of the very education you seek. The school authority took swift action, conducting a thorough investigation and finding the studen...

@Celebrating Valentine's Day 2025

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@Celebrating Valentine's Day 2025: A Guide for Singles and Young Lovers Valentine’s Day is here again, filling the air with love, romance, and the joy of companionship. Whether you are single or in a budding relationship, this day holds meaning beyond roses and candlelit dinners. It is an opportunity to celebrate love in its purest form—love for yourself, for others, and for life itself. 💜If You Are Single: Love Yourself First Being single on Valentine’s Day does not mean you are missing out. You have the unique privilege of prioritizing self-love, growth, and fulfillment. This is the perfect time to invest in your personal development, embrace your dreams, and nurture your passions. Take yourself out, buy yourself a gift, or spend time with friends who uplift you. Love is not limited to romantic relationships; it thrives in self-acceptance, friendships, and meaningful connections. Guard your heart against unnecessary pressure or comparison. Seeing couples celebrate does not mean ...

@Women and Girls in Science

@Breaking Barriers, Shaping the Future: Women and Girls in Science An International Day for Women and Girls in Science 2025 Science has long been the engine of progress, shaping civilizations and driving technological revolutions. Yet, for generations, women and girls have faced barriers that limited their participation in scientific fields. Today, as we mark the 2025 International Day for Women and Girls in Science, we celebrate their groundbreaking contributions, amplify their voices, and reinforce the urgent need to break the remaining barriers. ▪️Shattering Stereotypes, Redefining Possibilities The myth that science is a male-dominated domain is rapidly crumbling. Women like Marie Curie, Rosalind Franklin, Katherine Johnson, and Frances Arnold proved that gender is no limitation to scientific brilliance. Across Africa, pioneers like Professor Francisca Okeke (Nigeria’s atmospheric physicist) and Wangari Maathai (Kenyan environmentalist) have reshaped our understanding of science’s ...

@World Radio Day 2025

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@World Radio Day 2025: Radio and Climate Change Today, February 13, the world unites to celebrate World Radio Day 2025, recognizing the significance of radio in shaping societies. This year’s theme, "Radio and Climate Change," highlights the power of radio in spreading awareness, educating communities, and driving action for a sustainable planet. Radio has always been more than a source of entertainment and news. It is a veritable tool for education and self-development. As you tune in to various programs, you absorb knowledge, refine your thinking, and broaden your perspective on critical issues—including climate change. The battle against environmental degradation requires consistent and accurate information, and radio remains one of the most accessible platforms to achieve this. Beyond climate awareness, radio plays a crucial role in your personal development. Quality programming enhances your intellect, sharpens your communication skills, and nurtures a sense of curiosity...

@Suicide: Not the Option

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 @Suicide: Not the Option Life can sometimes feel overwhelming. The challenges you face—academic stress, financial struggles, marital upheaval, emotional distress, career adversity, health downturn, social stigmatisation, other life burdens—may seem unbearable. You may feel trapped, lost, or convinced that there is no way out. However, ending your life is never the answer. Suicide is a permanent response to a temporary problem, and no matter how heavy your burdens feel, there is always hope. What seems unbearable today may become a distant memory tomorrow. Recent reports of young people taking their lives, including the tragic case of a 200-level student of the University of Ilorin who died by suicide due to financial hardship, are heartbreaking. You may relate to such struggles, but understand this: tough times do not last forever. Every challenge has an expiry date, and with the right approach, you can overcome them. What Should You Do Instead? ▪️Speak Up and Seek Help You are no...

@Breaking Barriers, Shaping the Future: Women and Girls in Science

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@Breaking Barriers, Shaping the Future: Women and Girls in Science An International Day for Women and Girls in Science 2025 Science has long been the engine of progress, shaping civilizations and driving technological revolutions. Yet, for generations, women and girls have faced barriers that limited their participation in scientific fields. Today, as we mark the 2025 International Day for Women and Girls in Science, we celebrate their groundbreaking contributions, amplify their voices, and reinforce the urgent need to break the remaining barriers. ▪️Shattering Stereotypes, Redefining Possibilities The myth that science is a male-dominated domain is rapidly crumbling. Women like Marie Curie, Rosalind Franklin, Katherine Johnson, and Frances Arnold proved that gender is no limitation to scientific brilliance. Across Africa, pioneers like Professor Francisca Okeke (Nigeria’s atmospheric physicist) and Wangari Maathai (Kenyan environmentalist) have reshaped our understanding of science’s ...

@Who is a Good Leader?

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 @Who is a Good Leader? A good leader is someone who inspires, guides, and empowers others to reach their full potential. What makes a leader truly effective and admirable? It’s not just about having authority or making decisions—it’s about the qualities that shape your character and actions. ▪️A good leader leads by example. You demonstrate integrity, honesty, and consistency in everything you do. Your actions align with your values, and you hold yourself accountable for the impact you have on others. People trust you not because of your position, but because of your consistency and authenticity. ▪️Empathy is another hallmark of good leadership. A great leader understands the needs, concerns, and emotions of those they lead. You listen actively and offer support when needed. You create an environment where others feel seen, heard, and valued. ▪️Vision is essential. A good leader has a clear sense of direction and purpose. You inspire others by painting a picture of what’s possible...

@Manner of Approach

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@Manner of Approach: The Key to Favourable Outcomes In the African context, respect is a fundamental virtue that governs relationships and interactions. Your manner of approach—how you communicate and act—can either open doors for you or shut them permanently. Whether you are engaging with older adults or peers, wisdom and humility must define your approach if you desire favourable results. ▪️Respect in Communication The way you speak to people determines how they will respond to you. When addressing older adults, ensure your tone is calm, polite, and filled with deference. Words like "sir," "ma," and "please" should not be absent from your vocabulary. Even among your peers, the right choice of words can foster mutual respect and understanding. Avoid being brash, rude, or condescending, as such attitudes can create unnecessary conflicts. Listening is just as important as speaking. When engaging in a conversation, allow the other person to express their tho...

@My Heartfelt Appreciation

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🔔My Heartfelt Appreciation🔔 To my loving and amazing youths, leaders, colleagues, friends, fans, and family—thank you from the depths of my heart for your prayers, best wishes, thoughtful comments, calls, messages, visits, kind gestures, and the beautiful celebrations both online and offline. Your singing, dancing, and outpouring of love made my special day truly remarkable. Beyond every accomplishment, the greatest blessing in my life is you—our relationship is my deepest joy. I cherish your spontaneous kindness, thoughtfulness, and admiration. May you continually experience the true love of God. Thank you!🙏 eSigned: Otunba Femi Abiola, MCE  President, Project Youth Fulfil (PYoF)

A BIRTHDAY TRIBUTE TO OTUNBA FEMI ABIOLA

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A BIRTHDAY TRIBUTE TO OTUNBA FEMI ABIOLA: AN EXCEPTIONAL LEADER AND A TRAILBLAZER  Today, we raise our voices in heartfelt celebration of an exceptional leader, a dynamic visionary, and a man whose life has been a shining testament to the power of purpose-driven living—Otunba Femi Abiola, MCE, the distinguished President of Project Youth Fulfil (PYoF). *A Visionary Organizer and Trailblazer*  Otunba Femi Abiola, you are not merely an organizer; you are an architect of impactful youth-driven programs and initiatives. Your unrivaled leadership and meticulous planning have midwived groundbreaking events such as the renowned YOUTH GLORIFIED Concert, a platform where youths showcase their God-given talents to the glory of God, and the ever-inspiring Sports Competitions, International Days, Award Ceremonies among others, where you have nurtured teamwork, excellence, and sportsmanship. These initiatives, under your watchful eye, have become avenues for transformation, empowering coun...